A friendship fuck?

I was talking to a woman yesterday, an attractive lady with a nice body. Things were going well and I was enjoying the conversation, then she invited me over to her place to spend the night. I see that as a compliment of course, but I don’t do friendship fucks. I’m normal, I’ll admit that she is the kind of woman that had me thinking about sex with her, but I wasn’t about to suggest it.

Did that once when I was younger though. We where just friends and she was a nice basic woman that was easy to get along with. A number of us were at, um, someone’s apartment drinking and talking the evening away and she made a few remarks suggesting that she wouldn’t mind having sex with me. At least it seemed like that to me but sometimes I’m not always sure.

After the others left we decided to sleep there for the night rather than risk driving to the places we lived. She was going to sleep on the couch and I was going to sleep on the floor. After the lady that lived in the apartment went to bed I went to the bathroom to take a leak and when I came out she was snuggled down on the couch.

I’d had enough to drink that I was brave enough to go to the couch and ask her if she was still awake. She said, “What do you think?” Shoot, she had been waiting for me to come to her. So I started kissing her boobs, nice boobs by the way. And we had some great sex with each other. In fact it was so great and we where so good together that way that we kept doing it for a few months, every time we got the chance.

But it wasn’t a situation that could last, I didn’t love her in any deeper way, we were just good friends, so after a few months I moved on, that of course hurt her and I didn’t want to hurt her. As I said, she was a very nice lady. Since that time I have chosen to not do friendship fucks because feelings are always involved and attachments are often made. There may be exceptions, that is just how I look at it.

Having said all that, would I reconsider and do a friendship fuck in the future? Who knows, I’m human, we have defective brains. I guess it would depend on how nice she is and how easy she is to get along with. Nice basic women that are easy to get along with always have an effect on me. And from what I’ve read and seen in the past I know that sometimes they turn into good healthy relationships. A lot of couples seem to have started out just being friends that were screwing each other and it turned into something deeper.

I don’t know how it is in other parts of the world but in general American women are so screwed up. They think about love of course, but they think about it in the wrong ways it seems to me. It has come to my attention (remember that I’m generalizing) that they don’t want much want to talk about love until they have been to bed with you. Then if they like the sex they get attached to you.

Have you had any experiences like that and are willing to share your thoughts on that subject? I’m sort of confused about some of this stuff. But maybe friendship sex is okay? After all, almost everyone needs to get laid.

(A joke)
Billy wakes up in the middle of the night and hears strange sounds coming from his parents' bedroom. He sneaks up and nudges open the door, and sure enough, Mom's got her legs wide open and Dad is plowing her like there's no tomorrow. Billy gasps and runs away.

Dad just chuckles, but Mom slaps him and says "Dear, you'd better go and talk to Billy, I'm afraid we've upset him!"

Dad walks down the hall to Billy's room, and nobody's there. So he walks further down the hall and hears strange noises from the guest room. So he sneaks up and nudges the door open to find little Billy pumping away, fucking his grand-mother hard.

Dad shouts "Billy! What the hell is wrong with you!" Billy looks over his shoulder and replies "Yeah, it's not so funny when it's YOUR mom, is it?" …. LOL

Hey, have a great day, hugs…. BBC